Don’t Be That Guy
Don’t be that guy
who walks into a church and kills people
who walks into a school and kills people
who takes a walk of any kind and at the end
Take a walk, sure, but not that kind of walk.
Don’t be a stranger
Don’t be so strange that you start to think
that killing things is the only way.
Don’t get isolated and strange,
if there is any way you can avoid it.
Please stay in touch.
See if you can avoid any sort of logic which concludes
That killing people that you don’t know is okay.
Or the thinking that killing those you know is okay.
None of that logic is real.
Don’t be the guy who grows up only to somehow end up
killing strangers and their children.
As a parent I can tell you that raising even a single child
is a long and continual miracle.
Don’t be the guy
who kills a miracle.
Don’t be the guy who kills the hope
some parent had for their child.
and that includes your parents.
Don’t ever think that you are a victim of circumstance
and that its okay to create more victims.
You are the creator of your circumstance.
Accepting that is the first step forward.
This task, this life that you set for yourself
is your own choice, your own decision,
your own test set by you.
And if you flunk the test there is no one
there at the end of the day
To stare at the report card but you.
If you really must kill someone,
consider the Buddhist way.
How differently the world reacts
to someone burning themselves for peace
than torching morning shoppers for war.
But, best of all, if you can, don’t kill anyone
Find a way back into the light.
Find a way to connect with yourself
Don’t be that isolated guy.
Don’t get so alone that the only way
to touch people is to kill them.
And please, if you are not a killer, don’t laugh
and point at that isolated kid in your class.
See if you can find a way
to talk to him, connect with him,
to take him from alone and anonymous
to noticed and named
Don’t be that guy
who kills anything
especially don’t, if you can,
die the walking death
which turns you into a killer
If you are a black guy, no killing black guys
If you are a white guy, no killing black guys
If you are a black guy, no killing white guys
If you are any color, no killing any color
All the crayons must get along
Nothing needs to be killed today.
Or any day.
Let this be a reminder to you
Don’t be that guy.